I say “beloved” because of all the reasons we truly love
and will miss this home and property.
However, we are just as excited to move into our new home which we
signed papers for today! We are downsizing from six acres to one and
upgrading to a newer home with (hopefully) less maintenance and unforeseen
costs.
So much happened after we moved here; my career took a
turn and became much more consuming than I ever would have anticipated. (Kevin’s was already there.) The kids’
interests shifted and expanded. Health
issues for both of us, multiple surgeries (5), snakebites (okay, only one, but
you get the point!) all came into play at the same time.
All those things coupled with, my idealistic vision of
farming being hit with a dose of reality.
Planting and growing things isn’t as simple as sticking seeds in the
ground and watering, then harvesting. I
could go on, but the bottom line is, I think we bit off more than we could chew
without something else in life giving, and I’m not willing to give up most of
those other things until my kids are grown.
I’ll miss the charm of this old farmhouse, but not the
maintenance and utility bills.
I’ll miss the privacy, but not the isolation.
I’ll miss the long stretch of country road leading home,
but not the long, bumpy drive.
I’ll miss watching the spring storms roll in across the
pasture.
I’ll miss the unobstructed sunsets and sunrises.
Most of all, I’ll miss the trees. These huge, ancient trees that have been here
longer than my existence… There is
something magical about their spring awakening, after a long winter’s slumber,
and something darkly mysterious as they creak and groan, stark and naked in the
midst of winter.
The new home is convenient to everything. Schools, Church, grocery store and just
minutes from the main thoroughfare.
I’ll enjoy being closer to the schools and kid’s activities. Our commute to work is fairly substantial and
the added running back and forth to town for every other little things, like
grocery shopping, prescription pickup, practices, school events, church… it
adds up. The eight miles into town
takes us 20 minutes (one way) so doing things mid-week is an event
I’ll enjoy allowing the kids the opportunity to grow up
with neighborhood friends and in the community.
I’ll enjoy having a more open, sociable floor plan, where
the kitchen is open to the family room so the cook (yours truly) isn’t isolated
in the kitchen while everyone else is off doing their own thing.
I’ll enjoy having the boys in separate bedrooms. (2nd and 8th grade are
light years apart.)
I’ll enjoy having a completely fenced backyard where
Jasper will live and play and his fur might have a chance of staying the nice
biscuit white it’s meant to be. (His
current play place of choice is the neighboring pond, where he joins the cows
and brings himself home filthy.)
I’ll enjoy not having as much dirt to track into the
house and while I’ll miss all the shade gardens, it will be nice to have the
option to landscape with sun-loving plants.
And… I’m looking forward to having time to mountain bike
again and settling into a somewhat more streamlined life.
Update: November 22nd. Tomorrow will be a month since we closed. The day we signed the papers, I felt this massive burden lift off my shoulders and an overwhelming sense of peace come over me. We've mostly unpacked in our new home and are fixin' to enjoy our first Thanksgiving here. I couldn't be more thankful. <3
Update: November 22nd. Tomorrow will be a month since we closed. The day we signed the papers, I felt this massive burden lift off my shoulders and an overwhelming sense of peace come over me. We've mostly unpacked in our new home and are fixin' to enjoy our first Thanksgiving here. I couldn't be more thankful. <3
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